The first look has become one of my favourite moments to photograph—it’s raw, emotional, and oh-so-memorable. If you’re wondering whether a first look is for you, let’s dive into the pros and cons of a first look, explore its meaning, and discuss how to make it uniquely yours.
What is a First Look and Why Do it?
A first look is an intimate moment where the couple sees each other for the first time before the ceremony. It’s a chance to connect, calm your nerves, and share a private emotional moment before the whirlwind of the day begins.
Why is it important? First looks allow you to fully soak in the moment without an audience. And let’s be real—wedding days are hectic! A first look gives you precious time to pause and truly be present with your partner.
First Look Pros and Cons
Pros:
- Emotional Connection: You get a quiet moment together to focus on each other.
- Photography Opportunities: With fewer time constraints, we can capture those raw reactions beautifully.
- Stress Relief: Seeing your partner can calm pre-ceremony jitters.
- Timeline Benefits: It allows for more flexibility in your schedule, leaving more time for mingling post-ceremony.
Cons:
- Tradition: Some couples prefer the drama of seeing each other for the first time at the altar.
- Nerves: If you’re someone who prefers to save all the emotions for the ceremony, a first look may not be the right choice for you.
- Logistics: It requires planning to ensure the timeline flows smoothly (but don’t worry—I’ll help you with that!).
Is It Worth Doing a First Look?
In my experience, absolutely! Couples often tell me it was one of the most meaningful parts of their day. Not only does it provide beautiful photo opportunities, but it also allows you to feel more grounded before walking down the aisle.
How to Make Your First Look Special
Pick a Meaningful Spot: Whether it’s under a canopy of trees or at your ceremony location, choose a space that feels personal to you.
Add a Personal Touch: Write letters to each other and exchange them during the first look.
Capture the Anticipation: I love photographing the build-up—the deep breath before you tap their shoulder, the moment they turn around—it’s magic.
Bring Loved Ones: Include your bridal party or family for a group first look.
When Should the First Look Be?
Typically, I recommend scheduling your first look about 90 minutes before the ceremony. This ensures you have time to savor the moment, take couple portraits, and still relax before the main event.
How to Book Your Wedding Photography with Me
As a Melbourne-based wedding photographer, I specialise in capturing moments like these—emotional, heartfelt, and unique to every couple. My wedding packages start from $3,850 and include full-day coverage, an online gallery, and the option to add a bespoke fine-art wedding album.
Booking your wedding photography is simple. Start by heading to my wedding photography page and filling out the enquiry form. From there, we’ll schedule a chat to discuss your vision and ensure I’m the perfect fit for your big day.
About Emma
Hi, I’m Emma Hawkins! With a style that blends documentary authenticity and editorial elegance, I’ve been lucky enough to capture love stories in Melbourne and across the globe. I believe in preserving your most meaningful moments in a way that feels effortless and timeless. Whether it’s your first look or your first dance, I’m here to ensure every detail is beautifully documented.
If a first look sounds like something you’d treasure forever, let’s chat. I’d love to help you plan a timeline that ensures your day flows beautifully while capturing the moments that matter most.
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