You’ve chosen the venue, maybe even found your dress, and now you’re looking at photographers. There are hundreds of talented people with cameras—so how do you find the one? The person who won’t just take photos, but who you’ll trust implicitly to capture the spirit of your day without missing a beat?
Here’s the truth: choosing your wedding photographer is about more than liking someone’s portfolio. You’re inviting this person into your most intimate, emotional, and sometimes chaotic moments. So how they make you feel matters just as much as the photos themselves.
1. Start With How You Want to Feel in Your Photos
Do you want photos that feel editorial, but still natural? Images where you’re not stiffly posed, but gently guided when needed? Choose someone whose approach feels aligned with your own energy. Ask yourself: Do I see myself in their photos? Do the couples look relaxed and connected, or styled and distant?
2. Pay Attention to Personality
You’ll spend more time with your photographer on the day than almost anyone else. Are they someone who feels calming? Uplifting? Are they warm and organised? You don’t need your best friend—you need someone who can read the room and make you feel seen, not staged.
3. Ask These Questions Before You Book:
- What’s your approach on the day—do you direct or observe more?
- How do you handle the unexpected (bad weather, delayed timelines, tricky guests)?
- Will you help us with the timeline and group photo planning?
- Do you work with film, digital, or both?
- What happens after the wedding—how long until we see the gallery?
The way a photographer answers these will tell you a lot about their professionalism, preparedness, and care.
4. Trust Your Gut
When you meet them—whether it’s on Zoom or in person—you’ll probably feel if it’s right. Trust that. The right photographer will make you feel calm, heard, and like you’re in good hands.
And if you leave the call more excited about your wedding than when you started? That’s a good sign you’ve found the one.
About Emma
I’m Emma, a wedding and elopement photographer based in Melbourne and travelling worldwide. My approach is calm and intentional—I work with couples who want their day to feel as beautiful as it looks, without pressure or performative moments.
Photography, for me, is about more than capturing a day. It’s about giving you space to be present in it.
I only take on a limited number of weddings each year so I can give each couple the attention and care they deserve.
If that sounds like the kind of experience you’re after, I’d love to hear from you.
Let’s capture the wedding photos you’ve always dreamed of! Get in touch today.
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